I find it very interesting that since beginning this blog, I have had two people delete me from Myspace. But when I looked amongst my friend list, the ones who I thought had deleted me were still on there. So I must have offended someone whom I had not known would be offended by my ideas. I am learning a lot about people just by posting blogs.
I have friends on my networking sites who actually like reading my writings, even though they would be the first people I would think would be offended by them. Isn't it amazing how things can go?
I can remember after I ended my disastrous second marriage, and I was going to college at that time, and I went to my math class the morning my divorce was final, and expressed my relief at not having to deal with married life anymore, and immediately was approached by someone who wanted to be y friend, and move in with me and take up housekeeping with me, and let me take showers in this individual's house, and although I welcomed the friendship at first, it became stifling ultimately, and I just had to stay away from this person, who turned out to be gay, which was what I did not want, either. I did not want any kind of relationship at all.
So it can be both ways. One just needs enough space, and to just get to know people, and be onesself.
My circle of friends now is so variable; some are oriented toward causes, some are looking for lost children, missing adults, cures for diseases, justice for various crimes, there are many things out there that can be done and people are doing them. Those are the people who are in my circle of friends.
Saturday, November 22, 2008
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